We all know that BDSM can be a fun and exciting way to spice up our sex lives. But what about when you want to enjoy some kinky fun all by yourself?
Self-BDSM can be a great way to explore your kinky side without involving another person. Not to mention, it can be a great way to get your kink fix when you don’t have a partner available.
So, if you’re looking for some self-BDSM ideas, look no further! Here’s a how-to guide to get you started.
1. Decide What You Want to Try
The first step is to decide what kinds of self-BDSM activities you want to try. Do you want to experiment with bondage? Try some impact play? Or explore your dominant or submissive side?
There are endless possibilities when it comes to self-BDSM, so take some time to explore what sounds fun and exciting to you.
2. Gather Your Supplies
Once you know what you want to try, it’s time to gather your supplies. If you’re planning on doing any bondage, you’ll need some rope, handcuffs, or other restraints.
For impact play, you’ll need some paddles, whips, or other toys. And if you want to explore your dominant or submissive side, you may want to invest in some sex toys, like dildos, vibrators, or anal beads.
3. Set the Mood
Self-BDSM can be a great way to get in touch with your sexual side, so it’s important to set the mood before you get started.
Create an environment that makes you feel sexy and comfortable. This might mean dimming the lights, playing some mood-setting music, or lighting some candles.
4. Get in the Right Headspace
In addition to setting the physical mood, it’s also important to get in the right headspace before you start your self-BDSM session.
Take some time to relax and clear your mind. Focus on your breath and let go of any stress or anxiety you’re feeling.
And if you’re having trouble getting in the right headspace, try focusing on your intention for your self-BDSM session. What do you hope to get out of it?
5. Start Slow
Once you’re in the right headspace and have gathered your supplies, it’s time to start your self-BDSM session.
But it’s important to start slow. If you try to do too much too soon, you may find yourself feeling overwhelmed or even panicked.
So, take your time and start with something simple. If you’re new to bondage, try tying your hands together with a scarf or necktie.
And if you want to try impact play, start with something soft, like a feather or a scarf. Once you’re comfortable with that, you can move on to something more intense, like a paddle or a whip.
6. Listen to Your Body
As you’re exploring self-BDSM, it’s important to listen to your body and pay attention to your physical and emotional reactions.
If you start to feel pain that’s too intense or uncomfortable, or if you start to feel overwhelmed or panicked, it’s important to stop and take a break.
7. Have Fun!
Above all, self-BDSM should be fun! So, don’t take yourself too seriously and let yourself enjoy the experience.
If you find yourself getting too caught up in your head, try to focus on the physical sensations you’re feeling. And if you start to feel self-conscious, remind yourself that there’s no one there to judge you.
So, go ahead and let yourself explore your kinky side!
