Kinksters enjoy a wide variety of sexual activities. Though certain kinks may be more popular than others, there is no one right way to enjoy kink. Different kinks can be combined in endless permutations to create a sex life that is as unique as the individual(s) involved. The following is a list of some of the more popular kinks, along with a brief description of each.
Bondage – Bondage is the use of restraints to restrict movement and/or sensation. Common bondage toys include handcuffs, rope, and tape.
Dominance/submission – Dominance/submission (D/s) is a power exchange dynamic in which one person takes on the role of dominant partner and the other takes on the role of submissive partner. D/s can be played out in a variety of ways, from simple verbal exchanges to complex scenes involving role-play, costumes, and equipment.
Spanking – Spanking is the act of striking the buttocks for the purpose of sexual arousal or stimulation. This can be done with the hand, a paddle, a whip, or any other implement the partners agree on.
Fetishes – A fetish is a sexual interest in an object or body part that is not typically considered sexual. Common fetishes include feet, shoes, and lingerie.
Watersports – Watersports is a catch-all term for any type of sexual activity involving urine or urination. This can include anything from simply urinating on someone to using urine as a lubricant.
Edge play – Edge play is any type of kink activity that carries a higher risk of physical or emotional harm. Edge play can include activities like breath play, knife play, and fire play.
These are just a few of the many different types of kinks that people enjoy. There is no wrong way to enjoy kink, so long as all parties involved are consenting adults and are comfortable with the activities being undertaken.1. What is your favorite kink?
2. What are your top three kinks?
3. What kinks do you enjoy giving and receiving?
4. What kinks do you feel most comfortable with?
5. What kinks do you feel most uncomfortable with?
6. What kinks do you feel most curious about?
Example
1. What is your kink?
I don't really have a kink, I'm more vanilla.
2. What is your biggest turn on?
Being touched and teased all over my body. I love it when my partner takes their time exploring every inch of me.
3. What is your biggest turn off?
Rough or aggressive sex. I like it slow and sensual.
4. What is your favorite sexual position?
I love being on top so I can control the speed and depth of penetration.
5. What is your favorite type of pornography?
I prefer amateur porn or porn that is more realistic and less staged.
6. What is your favorite sexual fantasy?
I fantasize about being with a group of people, both men and women. I love the idea of being the center of attention and pleasuring everyone.
7. What is your biggest fear when it comes to sex?
I'm afraid of not being good enough or not being able to please my partner. I want to be able to give them the best sexual experience possible.
